{"id":457,"date":"2012-01-06T15:40:02","date_gmt":"2012-01-06T22:40:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/?p=457"},"modified":"2012-01-06T15:40:02","modified_gmt":"2012-01-06T22:40:02","slug":"homeward-bound","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/?p=457","title":{"rendered":"Homeward Bound"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are three of them, two men and a young woman, and they speak nary a word.\u00a0 There is the usual mayhem this morning at the comedor with the chatter of Spanish and English intermingled.\u00a0 These three look lost, forlorn, and frightened as they watch the others going through the piles of clothing and blankets.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_459\" style=\"width: 460px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/picking-out-some-warm-clothes.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-459\" class=\"size-full wp-image-459\" title=\"picking out some warm clothes\" src=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/picking-out-some-warm-clothes-e1325805881896.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/picking-out-some-warm-clothes-e1325805881896.jpeg 450w, http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/picking-out-some-warm-clothes-e1325805881896-270x300.jpg 270w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-459\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Picking out some warm clothes<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I approach one of them, an older gentleman, and ask him, &#8220;Where is your home?&#8221;\u00a0 It is one phrase I know in Spanish:\u00a0<em> &#8220;Donde esta su casa?<\/em>&#8221;\u00a0 He looks at me and shakes his head.\u00a0 His eyes are a thousand miles away.\u00a0 He is with a young boy, perhaps 14 years old, who says nothing and gives me no eye contact.\u00a0 There is a young woman who is crying and rocking back and forth on a bench.\u00a0 She is part of this traveling trio.\u00a0 She tells me in Spanish that they are from a village six hours from the city of Oaxaca and they desperately want to go home.\u00a0\u00a0 The main dialect of this village is not Spanish but a language that no one here at the comedor speaks.\u00a0 Thankfully the young woman speaks Spanish and we are able to piece together part of their story.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_460\" style=\"width: 251px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/The-girl-from-Oaxaca.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-460\" class=\"size-full wp-image-460\" title=\"The girl from Oaxaca\" src=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/The-girl-from-Oaxaca.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"241\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/The-girl-from-Oaxaca.jpeg 241w, http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/The-girl-from-Oaxaca-144x300.jpg 144w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 241px) 100vw, 241px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-460\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The girl from Oaxaca<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I have been coming to this shelter on the border of Arizona and Mexico for almost a year now, and this is the most traumatized group of immigrants I have seen.\u00a0 The woman is limping, and shows me her knee, which is twice the normal size.\u00a0 I want to apply ice, wrap the knee in an Ace bandage, offer the woman some Advil.\u00a0 Unfortunately the small<em> clinica<\/em> that was conveniently located across the street from this shelter is now closed.\u00a0 The rent was raised, and the Jesuits who operate the comedor can no longer pay the monthly fee. \u00a0 The relocated clinic is at least three blocks up the street, and there is no way this woman can walk this distance today.<\/p>\n<p>The two men accompanying her are dressed in tattered jackets and carry blankets under their arms.\u00a0 The temperature these nights has been below freezing.\u00a0 The young woman tells me that they have been four days in the desert and were picked up by the Border Patrol and deported to the Nogales immigration authorities.\u00a0 The older man is her uncle, the younger boy her nephew.<\/p>\n<p>Trying to hold herself together emotionally, the young woman tells me she has a baby who is two years old and very sick.\u00a0 The baby is with the grandmother in the village outside of Oaxaca.\u00a0 There are many tears as she tells me of her baby, the illness, the journey, why she was trying to cross the U.S. border. \u00a0 I understand maybe half of what she is saying.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_461\" style=\"width: 386px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Baby-Jesus-at-the-comedor.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-461\" class=\"size-full wp-image-461\" title=\"Baby Jesus at the comedor\" src=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Baby-Jesus-at-the-comedor.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"376\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Baby-Jesus-at-the-comedor.jpeg 376w, http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Baby-Jesus-at-the-comedor-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 376px) 100vw, 376px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-461\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Baby Jesus at the comedor<\/p><\/div>\n<p>So like good Samaritans, we all march over to the bus station to try and help this little group of refugees.\u00a0 Sometimes the Mexican immigration authorities will pay for a bus ticket home if there is a baby involved.\u00a0 Well, there is a baby involved, but the baby is more than thirty hours away by bus in a tiny village in the jungles of the state of Oaxaca.<\/p>\n<p>Bus tickets for the three of them will cost $298. \u00a0 Plus they need money for food for the long bus ride. We empty our pockets and come up with $100 and change.\u00a0 Once again the manager of the bus station lets us pay for one ticket, and we write an IOU for the balance to be paid in one week.\u00a0 I am sure angels reside in this bus station.\u00a0 There are high fives all around.\u00a0 Even the older gentleman cracks a smile as these crazy Americans dance around the office of the bus station.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_466\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/I-have-the-right-to-live-a-life-free-of-violence.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-466\" class=\"size-full wp-image-466\" title=\"I have the right to live a life free of violence\" src=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/I-have-the-right-to-live-a-life-free-of-violence.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/I-have-the-right-to-live-a-life-free-of-violence.jpeg 500w, http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/I-have-the-right-to-live-a-life-free-of-violence-300x240.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-466\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&quot;I have the right to live a life free of violence&quot;, a banner at the comedor<\/p><\/div>\n<p>And the young woman teaches us to say &#8220;safe journey&#8221; in her native language.\u00a0 It is a sweet moment.\u00a0 She asks us to repeat the phrase after her, and we struggle with the strangeness of the new words and syllables.\u00a0 But we do it.\u00a0 And she approaches each of us and offers a hug.\u00a0 She is crying, and to be honest, we were all tearful at this point.<\/p>\n<p>I think about this little group of migrants later that night, and worry about how they will get home after they arrive in the city of Oaxaca, their destination by bus.\u00a0 They still have another six hours to go.\u00a0 But there is a steadfastness and grit here that always amazes me.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_462\" style=\"width: 350px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/True-grit-at-the-comedor.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-462\" class=\"size-full wp-image-462\" title=\"True grit at the comedor\" src=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/True-grit-at-the-comedor.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"340\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/True-grit-at-the-comedor.jpeg 340w, http:\/\/www.arroya.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/True-grit-at-the-comedor-204x300.jpg 204w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 340px) 100vw, 340px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-462\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">True grit<\/p><\/div>\n<p>No matter how beaten down, my migrant <em>compadres<\/em> pick themselves up and move on.\u00a0 It is an indomitable spirit that keeps me coming back week after week.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are three of them, two men and a young woman, and they speak nary a word.\u00a0 There is the usual mayhem this morning at the comedor with the chatter of Spanish and English intermingled.\u00a0 These three look lost, forlorn, and frightened as they watch the others going through the piles of clothing and blankets. 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